York Times best-seller list. Paul White, applying the 5 Love Languages concepts to work-based relationships. Do you have other books? Every child is born with a love tank and I compare it to a gas tank in a car. For instance, if she appreciates a clean car you could surprise her by washing her car. References edit, external links edit. Their answers fell into 5 categories. To use this language it is necessary to "speak her dialect which requires knowing her well enough to know what she likes, says Chapman.
I vacuum every Thursday night. Chapman suggests that to discover another person's love language, one must observe the way they express love to others, and analyze what they complain about most often and what they request from their significant other most often. Although Chapman's work is not based upon scientific research, anecdotal evidence indicates that when a person receives the same kind of expression of love that he gives, he recognizes the loving intention and his emotional tank is filled. If however, you understand that they speak a different language, then you can is Napoleon Bonaparte Machiavellian in Nature learn to speak that language. In your book you discuss the concept of a "love tank can you explain what this is? After taking the profile then share your results with your loved one(s) so they can know specifically what makes you feel loved and I recommend you encourage them to do the same. More than just spending minutes, hours or days in proximity to each other, quality time means focusing on him and your relationship. Hearing the words, I love you, are importanthearing the reasons behind that love sends your spirits skyward. There has been a lack of research to test the validity of Chapman's model and whether it can be generalized.